Maddie's Moments

"To you who are parents, I say, show love to your children. You know you love them, but make certain they know it as well. They are so precious. Let them know. Call upon Heavenly Father for help as you care for their needs each day as you deal with these challenges which inevitably come with parenthood. You need more than your own wisdom in rearing them." - Thomas S. Monson I am so grateful to have grown up with parents that made sure I knew they loved me. They showed it through their actions and through their words and it's something I will never forget.The loving home I grew up in is one that I hope to have in the future. Now, I'm not a parent right now, but I'm doing all I can to prepare for that exciting time in my life. Sometimes it worries me to see how bad the world is getting. It makes me wonder if we really should be bringing children into this crazy world. Our parents say that my life is harder than theirs was at my age. I've experienced ...

This week we talked about something very near and dear to my heart, Fathers. 💙 When I think about my Dad, I couldn't be more grateful for the influence he has played in my life. I was lucky enough to have a Dad who was as present in my life. He worked long hours, leaving for work at 6 am and coming back home around 6 pm. My brothers and I would always get excited when our Dad came home because he made the effort to be involved in our lives. He would come to our basketball games, ballet and piano recitals, and play games with us. I remember my Dad even coached one my junior jazz teams. I don't know how on Earth he made time for all that he did, but my Dad was present in my life and it had a major positive impact. My relationship with my Dad is to this day so important to me. I know I can always turn to my Dad because of the strong bond we created as I grew up. Whether a father is present or not can make a great impact in the children's lives, good and bad. Here are ...

Making decisions is something we will do every. single, day. for the rest of our lives. Some will be big decisions like who we are going to marry, where we will live, and what career we will go into. Others will be smaller decisions like what we will wear for the day, what cereal we'll eat, and what we'll say. When our decisions involve others that's when it's important that we counsel with them. We can counsel in our families, in our marriages, in our church callings, and in our careers. When we counsel, we communicate our thoughts on matters and then compromise and decide together what should be done.  Counseling with my husband is one of my favorite things to do. It's where I get to learn his thoughts on certain topics and honestly, it's a time where I just get to understand him better. We make sure that when we counsel, we are in a comfortable situation where we can open up 100% and be completely honest with each other.  My husband and I have co...

At some point, every family will experience a family stress event. Some will experience many in their lifetimes while other will experience less. Nevertheless, we are all going to experience these stressors no matter who we are.  Some family stressors include: - losing a job - moving - a rebellious child - death of a spouse or parent - suicide in the family - death of a child - separation or divorce of a spouse or parent - physical or sexual abuse - spouse or parent has an affair - spouse or parent has an addiction to drugs, pornography, alcohol, etc. - family member jailed or arrested - family member is disabled or chronically ill - etc. etc. etc. etc. (there are SO many more!)  Some families come out of these stressors better than others. These stressors tend to bring the families down, but how the family copes with these events determine if their family will bounce back, become stronger and closer, or if it will be detrimental. It's ...